For many a men, we have had that one that got away feeling. What do I mean by this? Men sometimes feel like they had a girl that they let slip through there fingers. She was everything they were looking for, but for whatever reason, he messed up and she walked out his life forever. Most men will tell you that they have had one that got away, and those that haven’t either a) haven’t met her yet, or b) are married to her.
But where does this sort of feeling that “she got away come” from. The topic is hotly debated but, one of the common agreed upon ideologies is, men and women are locked in a “game,” the winner determined by who is more cunning than the next. I won’t go into details today about this “game” but it has a long history.
I give many men, who ask me, advice on how to deal with this situation, for I myself have been a victim of its reckless emotions. If you ever happen across this, “she got away feeling” I advise that you analyze what you did wrong, what went wrong, if anything, and what you could do better. These are just a few questions you should ask yourself, but ultimately I believe you need analyze the relationship.
By analyzing the entire relationship you can correct the mistakes you made. It is a process, a process that will take many months and evolve many times before it’s all said and done.This is not something that you can just discover over night. In closing remember, love is a process that comes with it’s ups and downs, its trials and tribulations. If your white buffalo got away, look to the future and try not to repeat the mistakes in your past. Otherwise you will just “Fade into the Background….”